tips for the busy


Working a full time desk job, running an online business, and taking care of a 10 month old has got me bizzzeeeee…  During the week I leave for the office around 7a and don’t get back home until after I pick up the baby from daycare at 6p.  From there it’s a mad dash to get Denton fed and ready for bed, dinner made, the house picked up, and ready for work the next day.  Yes, the hubs is there to help, but he’s also got a day job, side biz, and extracurriculars too.  HOW DO PEOPLE DO IT?!?!

Here are some tips and tricks that have really helped me stay sane…

1. Keep lists.

I keep a list in “Notes” on my phone of:  (i) Things to do, and (ii) Things to get.  It sounds basic I know, but it’s a MUST.

In the “to do” section I add things like “pick up laundry after Thursday”, “schedule Bisou’s vet appt in March”, “measure and order blinds”, “Nordstrom returns”, etc.  These are the things I need to remember to do, but don’t want my brain cluttered thinking about them.

And even more helpful I think is the “things to get” list, which I have subdivided into:  (i) groceries, and (ii) other stuffs.  If I’m rummaging through the kitchen and realize we’re out of salt, or eggs, soy milk, or heaven forbid coffee — it goes on the list.  Toilet paper, paper towels, cleaning solutions, diapers, wipes, printer ink — whatever we’re running low on, it goes on the list as soon as I notice it.  Which brings me to my next tip…

2. Amazon Prime.

If you don’t already have it, spend the $100 and get Amazon Prime. It’s worth it for the free and fast shipping alone, and it comes with music and video streaming perks too!

Once a week or so, take that “things to get” list and use it to place an order via Amazon Prime.  Voila!  It shows up at your door a day or two later — sometimes even faster!

3. Instacart.

To tackle the groceries part of my list, I turn to Instacart.  Instacart is an app that you can download and use to place grocery orders at your local market.  Simply shop the grocery store online, and then they package it all up for you and deliver it to your door on the date and time you request— OMG SO AWESOME, RIGHT?!!  Yes, there’s a small charge, and yes I always tip the driver, but for me it is SO WORTH IT.  Grocery shopping is among my least favorite chores.  ughhh.  yuck.

4.  Slow Cooker Freezer Meals.

Yup.  That’s how I cook these days.  I also like the dinner kit services (see my review of Blue Apron, Gobble, and Hello Fresh here), but those still take some effort and on week nights that’s hard for me.

If you don’t know, a “slow cooker freezer meal” is a bag of ingredients that you can pull from the freezer in the morning before heading out to work, dump the contents into a slow cooker or crockpot, and cook on low for ~8 hours.  Then when you walk into the door that evening, after a long full day, you’re welcomed by the smell of a home cooked meal that can be served up with minimal effort.  It’s genius.

A few weeks ago, out of hunger desperation, I was googling freezer meal recipes and stumbled across this gem from a fellow blogger.  It’s 8 pages of super easy slow cooker freezer meal recipes and a master grocery list in printable format.  IT’S LIKE I HIT THE JACKPOT! Click here and print it now!!  I shed a tear of joy on the spot.  I immediately filled my virtual Instacart cart and had the groceries delivered first thing Saturday morning.

Here’s the menu: chicken teriyaki (x2), chicken chili (x2), honey dijon pork and green beans, hot pepper pork and butternut squash, beef fajitas, and pepperoncini shredded beef.

If you follow the grocery list and recipes, you’ll end up with 8 freezer bag meals, each with about 3-6 servings, depending on appetites.  I spent about $120 on the ingredients (including some extras), so it breaks down to roughly $15 per meal, or $3 per serving.  Not bad IMO!

5. Lay out your clothes.

And finally, I lay out my outfits for the next couple of days the night before.  I like to have  at least 2 outfits on the ready so I have options to fit the weather and/or my mood.  This saves me a signifiant amount of time in the mornings and I cannot recommend it enough!!  No longer am I trying things on and throwing them on the floor.  My outfit options are hanging there, ready to go, I just have to pick.Targetdress1

What are your tips and tricks??  Please share, I’d love to hear them!!


Giveaway time!

We have teamed up with some of my favorite shops for a fun giveaway! My little Rem is now 5 months old (where has the time gone?!) and I wanted to share some of my favorite places to shop for things for her- as well as things for me!


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Here’s a little bit about each shop:

Petite Coo: This cute shop was at a pop up shop we were involved in over Christmas. I met the owner and she is just as adorable and sweet as the clothes she designs! The outfits I have bought from her for Rem are by far some of my favorites that she has. She wears them ALL the time. They are cozy and cute.

Canyon Leaf: I found canyon leaf after looking for raw baltic amber jewelry. They then custom made anklets for myself and my two girls when I couldn’t find exactly what I was looking for. They took the time to make sure it was exactly what I was wanting and the perfect fit. My Hadley and I wear ours daily- never taking it off- Rem, wears hers when she is not sleeping.

Emeroo: I actually met the owner of this cute shop by chance. I needed some new bows for Rem before we went to Texas a few months ago- so I searched for local etsy shops- messaged her asking if she could have them in time and she got them done the next day and I picked them up so I could take them with me! We met again at the same pop up shop that I was doing over Christmas. She makes the cutest bows. Both of my girls love them.

Make sure you enter the giveaway on our instagram post and show these cute shops some LOVE!


Ash’s obsessions

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foxiedox dress.  Gorgeous lace dress in a fun blue for $150!  Can I get a date night please!!?!!

leopard mini dress.  A flirty and feminine yet modest take on a sexxxy animal print.

lace shift dress.  This super versatile little number is only $65!  Pair it with a blazer and flats; OTK boots and a sweater; or leggings and a jacket.


Aj’s obsessions

Kaanas Slip-on Flat. I have these in white and black and LOVE them. This color is fun and on SALE! $87!

Emerald earrings. Statement earrings are a fun way to dress something basic up! Love these colors. Oh, and they are only $18.

H&M wool blend coat. This coat looks way more expensive than it is! Love the high neck and the simplistic shape. It comes in light gray, pink and blue!



Ash’s obsessions

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let is snow sweater.  I do love me a cheesepuff sweater, especially when they’re less than $30!  This one is perfect for a trip to Tahoe this winter!

knitted dress.  This dress with some suede OTK boots is my dream casual chic look.

leather tote.  Throw it over your shoulder or wear it cross-body – and it’s in the perfect shade of grey to carry with everything!!

Aj’s obsessions

Rag & Bone backpack. I am obsessed with backpacks these days. They have replaced me carrying a purse! Love this one. It’s easy to get in to- comes in colors, and will last forever.

Lace Paneled Dress. Such a sweet, pretty, girly dress- that looks way more expensive than $68!!

Moth Intarsia Pullover. This is right up my alley- sweater, neutral colors, fitted but not too much- and a basic pattern.


Ash’s obsessions

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AllSaints jacket.  The color, the cut, the zippers — love everything about this jacket!  And it will perfectly transition to spring!

i dig you sweater.  A baggy casual top with a cheeky message.  Cute, colorful, and relaxed for the new year.

color block sweater.  Only $32!?!!  I think winter has got me craving bright colors, and this sweater is perfect for Valentine’s coming up!

Aj’s obsessions

Dr. Dennis Gross Eye Serum. You probably saw on last week’s 3v3 I posted about these peel pads. Well, I also bought this eye cream. I’m on week 2 of using all my new face products! Fingers crossed I look amazing soon 😉

Let’s get lost tee. I love a good, basic tshirt. Spiritual Gangster is also one of my fav shops/brands.

Akemi + Kin Embroidered Dress. Love the pattern, colors, and shape of this Anthro dress!