family picture tips & tricks

let’s talk something that we all dread and hate, but– insist on doing and end up loving.

family pictures.

It’s that time of year! We start thinking about family pictures so we can slap one on a holiday card come December. Now, I can not be the only one who has this love/hate relationship with family pictures.

Typical pictures include: very few of my husband. I love him, but the fact he even shows up for them is an accomplishment! As for my kids, they will be crying, running off, making silly faces or some combination of those three. Then there is me. I will most likely be making some sort of mid-talking face or just something ridiculous in general because I am trying to get everyone to cooperate and be happy!

But- in saying all of that, there are always some photos that make the event worth it- which is why I want to share with you my family picture tips!

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December 2015

Me: Anthropologie sweater (similar ones here) | Target tee (similar ones here)  |  Jcrew jeans  |  Sorel boots.
Hadley: Hunter boots | Old navy puffer jacket (similar one here)
Beckam: Target hat | Old navy puffer jacket (similar one here)

 

First: Pick your theme or a vision you have for your pictures. Boho, field, industrial, cityscape, lifestyle. Or, do something fun- baking cookies, dress up, playing your favorite family sport. Hit up Pinterest! Create a vision board.

Second: Figure out outfits. PLEASE stop doing “matchy-matchy” outfits. Instead, LOOSELY coordinate. This goes back to your theme- run with it! Pick a few common shades and make sure that you distribute those evenly among the family. I always start with my outfit,{selfish I know}, but my kids look cute in anything and let’s face it, men aren’t going out buying new clothes for pictures. From there I usually pick one of my kids and put them in something that has a color or a shade of the color from my outfit. Then repeat with my husband and the other little one.

Third: If your kids are little like mine- quit trying to pose photos. It WILL NOT WORK and will just cause you to be angry, upset, and feisty through your photoshoot, which will end up making your face in pictures look worse than anyone else! Trust me on this. Set aside 5 minutes to try and get “that” photo- then move on. Once they are older you can have everyone smile at the camera, but until then, embrace the natural pictures. It will take so much anxiety off of you.

October 2015

Me: Free People dress.
Hadley: Dillards dress (similar one here) |  Minnetonka boots.
Beckam: Toms Boots. H&M pants | Carters Top (similar ones here)
Husband: Jcrew top (similar ones here)

October 2014

Me: Alice & Oliva Dress (similar ones here, here, here) | Badgley Mischka shoes
Hadley: Gap dress.
Beckam: Burberry onesie.

November 2013

Me: Jcrew sweater (similar one here) | Jcrew Jeans Hunter boots.
Hadley: Gap boots (similar ones here) |  Old Navy jeansOld navy fur vest. Gap ear muff headband.
Husband: Jcrew flannel (similar ones here)

November 2012

Me: Anthropologie sweater | Neiman Marcus Last call silk top | Steve madden wedge boots (similar one here)
Hadley: Gap sweater dress |  Anthropologie clip on a headband

 

Lastly: Breathe. Relax. Enjoy. At the end of the day you are just wanting some pictures of your family to remember the years as they grow. Whatever you get is a reflection of your family that year.

A few of my go-to stores for family photo outfits:

jcrew.   old navy.   gap.   anthropologie.  neiman marcus last call.   nordstrom.   free people.   h&m.

xox

aj

*photographer: Danielle with Creatively Chic Photography

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Ash’s obsessions

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Smith’s Rosebud Salve  I have been using this stuff for years!  It’s great for chapped lips, as a lip gloss, dab on cheeks and eyes for a dewy glow, moisturize your cuticles, and on and on.  It has a pretty yet mild scent and cute little packaging.  All for around $6!

June & Hudson Floral Print Wrap Dress Summer is coming to a close, but I’m still in love with florals.  And this cream and black wrap dress (for $68?!?!!) can easily transition to fall with some black tights and a cardigan.

The Nudist Sandal by Stuart Weitzman.  I want these so bad!  I own the slightly shorter heeled Nudistsong in black suede, but I’m thinking I may need some nude ones too.  Simple, classic, and super sexxxy.

Aj’s obsessions

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Acure Organics Moroccan Argan Oil and Argan Stem Cell Natural Shampoo and Conditioner  I have finally found a shampoo and conditioner that is color safe, paraben free, gluten free, sulfate free, sodium chloride free, phthalate free, and cruelty free without drying out my hair!

Ray Ban Clubmaster Sunglasses  These are so fun! They are a great pair of mirrored sunglasses, but with such a fun yet classic style.

Hard Tail ‘Radius’ Cross Back Tank I feel like I would be doing you a disservice if I didn’t post something from the Nordstrom summer clearance sale event! There are so many good items- but the workout gear specifically is what my eyes are on.

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This is one of my typical type of outfits- jeans, comfy shoe, a top that can’t be wrinkled, and something to make it stand out as different – in this case, the poncho. The amazing thing is, this poncho is on sale plus an extra 40% off!

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Jeans | Boots | Top similar here | Poncho | Sunglasses

 

xox

aj

 

wedding guest dress

wedding guest dresses

This weekend I’m headed to a wedding.  I love going to weddings!  Weddings are great excuses to dress up and sip champagne, two of my favorites.  But what to wear?!  Here are some of my current picks for wedding guest attire:

Eliza J – Lace Fit & Flare Dress ($138)

Vici Collection – Thora Maxi Romper ($68) in mustard.  The romper-dress also comes in wine  and black.

Alfred Sung – Woven Fit & Flare Dress ($198) in royal

Jay Godfrey – Strapless Popover Crepe Jumpsuit ($495)

Vici Collection – Girl About Town Dress ($48) in black

Roseblock Cross-Back Dress (was $198, on sale for $119—plus an additional 25% off!)

Vici Collection – In the Moment Wrap Maxi Dress ($62)

Jackie Jumpsuit ($240)

Stella McCartney – Rita poppy-print asymmetric-hem silk dress (was $1,365; on sale for $738)

 

xoxo

Nordstrom SALE!

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Has it really been three weeks since my last post?  How embarrassing.  In any event, the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale CANNOT be ignored.  I just finished scrolling through pages and pages of sale awesomeness and wanted to share with you some of my top picks!  If you have a Nordstrom card you can shop now with early access to the sale through July 21.

Caslon – Print Split Neck Blouson Dress on sale for $49 (reg. $79).  I love dresses and the color of this one transitions from summer to fall easily.  As the temps drop just add a denim jacket or cardigan and/or tights and boots and voila!  Also comes in black and white.

FOREO – ‘LUNA mini’ Compact Facial Cleansing Device on sale for $74 (reg. $99).  I have one of these and I love it!  It’s particularly great for travel since it dries quickly and holds a charge for months.

Topshop – Hooded Colorblock Duster Cardigan on sale for $56 (was $85).  Living in San Francisco there is a constant threat of chilly fog rolling in.  This hooded duster would be perfect!

Vince Camuto – ‘Peera’ Cutout Bootie on sale for $99 (reg. $149).  How cute are these?  Wear them now without socks and as the weather turns cooler pair them with tights.  They’d look awesome with dresses as well as cuffed boyfriend jeans.

Soft Joie – ‘Lilyana’ Roll Sleeve Shirtdress on sale for $145 (reg. $218).  Another dress that can easily transition from summer to fall.  Love everything about it.

Tom Ford – ‘Alicia’ 59mm Sunglasses on sale for $253 (reg. $380).  Who doesn’t need some oversized glasses?  They ooze glamour with a hint of drama.  Tom Ford is genius.

BP – Open Front Cardigan on sale for $31 (reg. $48)   and a hooded version is also on sale for $44 (reg. $68).  These cardigans are perfect to combat:  the San Francisco fog, chilly airplanes, over air-conditioned offices, and fall breezes.  And they look smart with skinny jeans and sleek flats.

Hinge – ‘Cora’ Block Heel Sandal on sale for $66 (reg. $99).  Versatile sandal in a neutral color.  Again, looks great with dresses, jeans, rompers, etc.

Soprano – Stripe Rib Knit Midi Dress on sale for $24 (reg. $38).  This dress caught my attention because of its options options options… Pair it with flip flops poolside; some white tennies and denim jacket to run errands; a white crop sweater and sandals for brunch– so many options!  And it’s less than $25?!?!

Happy shopping!

xoxo

 

spring suede shoe obsessions

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Soft suede just oozes elegance and femininity- unless its heavily fringed or studded and then it may take on more of a hippy or native american vibe.  Suede was a prominent trend in the 2015 spring/summer shows, and I would love to see it keep going and going… particularly with shoes!

My current spring suede shoe obsessions (left to right, top to bottom)-

Steve Madden “Kitty” Ghillie Sandal – $89 at Nordstrom.  I actually just bought these this past weekend.  The laces are on trend, and the low block heel give a little lift while staying casual and comfy.  I’m heading to Napa for a girlie weekend this Friday and these are definitely coming with!

Klub Nico “Tarina” Gladiator Sandal – $199 at Nordstrom.  With a little bit more of a heel, petite studs, and laser cutouts, this is maybe the girliest ‘gladiator’ sandal ever.  It’s a great neutral color and pairs just as great with dresses as it does with jeans.  These heels are also sold at Anthropologie for $240 (see Jordana Heels).

Manolo Blahnik BB 105 Suede Point-Toe Pumps in Cobalt – $595 at Saks.  I heart these shoes so much.  I’ve lusted after them for more than a year now.  I’ve even talked friends into buying them.  What’s so great about them?  The color.  Go see them in person.  The color is simply amazing.  I think I may need to add these blue suede shoes to my closet this season 😉

Stuart Weitzman Nudistsong – $398 at Stuart Weitzman.  A simple, clean, classic, and sexxxy sandal.  The cut on these is just perfect.  The heel is a bold straight line to elongate your leg, and the toe strap is slightly angled to display those perfectly pedicured toes.  The Nudistsong is the wearable version of the super hot Nudist sandal.  If you want a super sexy sandal for sitting, get the Nudist.  If you want to be able to walk and dance and strut around, go for the Nudistsong.

Happy shopping!
xoxo