family picture tips & tricks

let’s talk something that we all dread and hate, but– insist on doing and end up loving.

family pictures.

It’s that time of year! We start thinking about family pictures so we can slap one on a holiday card come December. Now, I can not be the only one who has this love/hate relationship with family pictures.

Typical pictures include: very few of my husband. I love him, but the fact he even shows up for them is an accomplishment! As for my kids, they will be crying, running off, making silly faces or some combination of those three. Then there is me. I will most likely be making some sort of mid-talking face or just something ridiculous in general because I am trying to get everyone to cooperate and be happy!

But- in saying all of that, there are always some photos that make the event worth it- which is why I want to share with you my family picture tips!

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December 2015

Me: Anthropologie sweater (similar ones here) | Target tee (similar ones here)  |  Jcrew jeans  |  Sorel boots.
Hadley: Hunter boots | Old navy puffer jacket (similar one here)
Beckam: Target hat | Old navy puffer jacket (similar one here)

 

First: Pick your theme or a vision you have for your pictures. Boho, field, industrial, cityscape, lifestyle. Or, do something fun- baking cookies, dress up, playing your favorite family sport. Hit up Pinterest! Create a vision board.

Second: Figure out outfits. PLEASE stop doing “matchy-matchy” outfits. Instead, LOOSELY coordinate. This goes back to your theme- run with it! Pick a few common shades and make sure that you distribute those evenly among the family. I always start with my outfit,{selfish I know}, but my kids look cute in anything and let’s face it, men aren’t going out buying new clothes for pictures. From there I usually pick one of my kids and put them in something that has a color or a shade of the color from my outfit. Then repeat with my husband and the other little one.

Third: If your kids are little like mine- quit trying to pose photos. It WILL NOT WORK and will just cause you to be angry, upset, and feisty through your photoshoot, which will end up making your face in pictures look worse than anyone else! Trust me on this. Set aside 5 minutes to try and get “that” photo- then move on. Once they are older you can have everyone smile at the camera, but until then, embrace the natural pictures. It will take so much anxiety off of you.

October 2015

Me: Free People dress.
Hadley: Dillards dress (similar one here) |  Minnetonka boots.
Beckam: Toms Boots. H&M pants | Carters Top (similar ones here)
Husband: Jcrew top (similar ones here)

October 2014

Me: Alice & Oliva Dress (similar ones here, here, here) | Badgley Mischka shoes
Hadley: Gap dress.
Beckam: Burberry onesie.

November 2013

Me: Jcrew sweater (similar one here) | Jcrew Jeans Hunter boots.
Hadley: Gap boots (similar ones here) |  Old Navy jeansOld navy fur vest. Gap ear muff headband.
Husband: Jcrew flannel (similar ones here)

November 2012

Me: Anthropologie sweater | Neiman Marcus Last call silk top | Steve madden wedge boots (similar one here)
Hadley: Gap sweater dress |  Anthropologie clip on a headband

 

Lastly: Breathe. Relax. Enjoy. At the end of the day you are just wanting some pictures of your family to remember the years as they grow. Whatever you get is a reflection of your family that year.

A few of my go-to stores for family photo outfits:

jcrew.   old navy.   gap.   anthropologie.  neiman marcus last call.   nordstrom.   free people.   h&m.

xox

aj

*photographer: Danielle with Creatively Chic Photography

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This is one of my typical type of outfits- jeans, comfy shoe, a top that can’t be wrinkled, and something to make it stand out as different – in this case, the poncho. The amazing thing is, this poncho is on sale plus an extra 40% off!

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Jeans | Boots | Top similar here | Poncho | Sunglasses

 

xox

aj

 

fall jackets

The first day of fall is September 22nd, and the time to start shopping for a new jacket is now!  Here are some suggestions to get you started.

Screen Shot 2016-08-28 at 6.05.14 PM1. The Downtown Field Jacket $148 at J. Crew.  Current sale promo of 30% off $200; or 25% off $125 with code SHOPMORE!  This jacket is beyond popular.  It has been around for several seasons now, each time popping up in different colors.  I own a navy version and my sister owns an olive green one.

2. Midday Showers Raincoat $218 at Anthropologie.

3.  Burberry London ‘Kinsington’ Double Breasted Trench Coat shown in shorter length for $1,795 at Nordstrom.  Also available in longer length for $1,895.  I do not yet own this coat for cost reasons, but I am obsessed with it.  Simply classic.     

4.  Volcom ‘Walk On’ Hooded Parka $155 at Nordstrom.

5.  Suede Trench $698 at Banana Republic.  Updated retro chic.

6. Reversible Quilted Linen Coat $678 at Anthropologie.  Cute and versitile.

7.  Canvas Trench $178 at Banana Republic.  An affordable and stylish trench.

8.  B.P. Cotton Canvas Anorak $69 at Nordstrom.

 

Happy shopping!

xoxo

ash

 

labor day sales

The weekend is almost here and that means Labor Day Sales shopping! Stores are already starting the markdowns and there are so many goodies I can’t hardly stand it! Here are my top picks thus far:

Bloomingdales | extra 20% off : You guys. I might go broke.

 AQUA floral lace skirt | Tory Burch swimsuit | Vince Camuto lace top | Elie Tahari crochet lace dress | Parker Talulah dress | BLANKNYC faux leather pants | 7 for all mankind jeans | Joie embroidered top | Laundry dress | Mara Hoffman bikini

Anthropologie | extra 40% off sale : need I say more.

Mirabelle tee | Festoon tee | Calexico fringe poncho | Caviana shirtdress | Macrame tee

Macy’s | extra 20% off or $25 off $150 purchase: Great place to stock up on Free People when they have a sale like this

FP take it easy short sleeve tunic |FP miranda printed midi dress | FP faux-leather moto jacket

Neiman Marcus Last Call | extra 30-75% off everything : wow. They haven’t had a sale this massive in awhile!

We could always use a LBD. Here’s two under $100! Orig. $295 now $78 here! Orig. $165 now $75 here! | Stuart Weitzman heels orig. $425 now $223 | High Low Dress orig $127 now $58 | Button up long Tunic orig. $248 now $122 | Tom Ford sunglasses orig. $435 now $199


Other amazing sales:

Urban Outfitters | BOGO 1/2 off tees and tanks

Lord & Taylor | 25% off clearance & 20% off everything else

Earthbound Trading Co | extra 30% off

BLANKNYC denim | 20% off with code BLANK20

Ted Baker London | 20% off selected styles

Home Decor Sales:

Pottery Barn | Z Gallerie | Home Decorators Collection | West Elm

happy shopping!

xox

aj

 

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Ash’s Obsessions

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Burberry Lip Velvet Lipstick in Oxblood No. 437   I am in love with Burberry’s Lip Velvet formula, and the Oxblood color is perfect as we transition to fall.

Ray Ban ‘Erika’ sunglasses I have been looking for a chic pair of mirrored sunglasses and I stumbled upon these over the weekend.  LOVE.  I don’t own them yet, but hope to soon!

Maybelline Volum’ Express The Colossal Mascara in Glam Black  I needed some black mascara in a pinch and picked up this gem during a quick Target run.  It delivered!

Aj’s Obsessions

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Mirabelle Tee  I bought this top during the last sale at Anthropologie and it quickly became one of my favorites. It is now on sale, PLUS an extra 25% off AND free shipping!

adidas Originals Trefoil Cap  Baseball hats are a staple in my closet, and this one has been added to the rotation. Dirty hair? Rushing to pick up my kids? Soccer Game? Baseball hat. Love the throw back to the original adidas logo.

Rupa Legging (Gray) I was introduced to this company this weekend while in San Francisco. I met the founder/owner and had a good chat with him about his new company, Evolve- Love in Action. What they are doing by giving back,  I love. I live in workout clothes, so I had to give them a try. I’m sold. More to come on these pants, my review, and this company, soon!

the nude flat

The nude flat is a wardrobe staple.  While I love heels, flats are a necessity for walking to the coffee shop, chasing down the muni, and scaling those San Francisco hills.

Because I wear them so much, I do tend to splurge on nude flats.  By breaking down the cost into a price-per-wear I convince myself that the expense is totally reasonable.

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That said, I also take great care of my shoes and I  get protective soles on them before ever wearing them to ensure the longest life possible.  If you live in San Francisco, Galletti Shoe Repair is THE BEST in my opinion (and they have red sole protectors for your Louboutins).

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Here are some of my current faves for chic nude flats in every price range:

LC flats  LC Lauren Conrad Scalloped Ballet Flats now $29 (was $49)

steve madden flats  Steve Madden Elusion d’Orsay Flats in Natural $59

saks flat1  Saks Fifth Avenue Leather Point Toe Flats now $79 (was $150)

sam edelman flat  Sam Edelman ‘Reema’ Half d’Orsay in Oatmeal Suede $109

mesh flatNeiman Marcus Gertrud Flat now $111 (was $139)

chloe flat  Chloe ‘Lauren’ Scalloped Ballet Flat in Taupe $495

valentino flat  Valentino ‘Rockstud’ Ballerina Flat in Poudre $745

 

xoxo